29 March, 2009

Two Years

Two years ago today, we lost my mom.  In some ways, it seems like it was last week, when I think, "Ooh, I have to share that with mom when I call her."  In other ways, I feel like it has been a much longer time than 2 years.  So much has happened that mom wasn't here to share with us. 

I look at this picture, and it reminds me of so much that I loved about my mother.  She loved the kids, and they loved her, completely.  She knew how to listen to children (and adults), and how to play and create with real imagination.  She was always up for an expedition, even with two broken arms.  And she loved being outside, in beautiful places and some not so obviously beautiful.  My mother was a true "noticer" of things.  She had the observant eye of an artist, and I love that she shared what she saw.  When I notice the wonderful little details in something seemingly mundane, I thank her for it.  And I will try to keep up the adventuring, and spirit of play, in her memory.

Missing you always, mother dear!...
 

8 comments:

Marianne said...

Sending much love. Everyone deserves a mother/daughter like the two of you were! xoxoxo Marianne

Susie J. said...

big, huge, squishy hugs for you today. ((((susie)))) I sure loved your mom. Such a wonderful woman.

Now, for a little smile... it was only ONE year ago that I came to visit you. :)

Coke said...

hugs

Lynn said...

I canNOT believe it's been 2 years. Sending you hugs on this day.......

AJ Reese said...

Wow. Two years. It blinked past. It feels like just a short while ago I was telling her not to pick up her tea mug with two broken wrists. We really, really miss you here. Amelia mentions Lily whenever she wears her purple dress or white "bride" dress.

Love, hugs and kisses, sweetie. If you start to feel sad, please walk outside and admire the sky and land. Berit always did.

Samantha M. Dowd said...

I am sorry sweetie. I can't imagine that kind of lose but I know you and I know you have a great mum because you truly are a reflection of her :)

Kay-From the Back Yard said...

Someone told me the other day that losing your mom is one of the hardest things we mortals deal with in this life.

Wishing you lots more good memories of your mom.

Rosie said...

no words: just the hugs of a friend